Have you ever wondered what makes you who you are?
Why do you sometimes feel more feminine than masculine? Or more like a woman than a man?
It can be a little more than just a penchant for dressing up. It could have to do with your personality, your brain, your genetics, your testosterone. Lots of things. There are a few online Gender Tests we've mentioned before, but never replace real counseling or therapy with online questionaires. Just take them to see where you fit.

The COGIATI (COmbined Gender Identity And Transsexuality Inventory), Gender Aptitude Test,The Empathy Quotient (EQ) Test, and The Systemizing Quotient (EQ) Test are 4 tests you can take at Gender DynamiX

It's been our position, that if you feel like a sissy, you ARE a sissy. If you are beginning to have doubts, then listen to some Sissy Affirmations.

Some secretly desire to be a REAL TRANSEXUAL. That's your own business. To thine own self be true. Like the porn sites? If you fantasize about being a she-male, you probably like watching too.

If you just want to keep it at a fantasty or online level, there are hundreds of thousands of people out there waiting to do the same. You can mingle with them on sites like Adult Friend Finder. Or you can set up a real meet! Crossdresser, Transgender, Transexual --- it's a wide wide world.

Finally, we want to tell you about Transfemme. Have you ever wanted boobs? awww look at the fairy tattoo

Yes, you CAN be shapely!
You get yourself all dressed up, painstakingly applied makeup and savoring the dress up time, and when you're finished you excitedly look in the mirror. Is your response one of satisfaction and thrill, or one of disappointment and dismay?

There are the details that can help you be more feminine looking, if you are struggling with that. Men's hips aren't shaped the same as women's, and neither are our butts. You will be happy to learn that there are PADDED PANTIES that will help you achieve that look.

Another thing: men's physical frames are somewhat larger than men, but again -- fear not. Many places cater to large size women. One that you should be especially pleased with is called Hips and Curves. One item you should call your attention to is the Waist Cincher. It is a cross between a Corset and a garter belt. And we know how you love the garter belts just because they are sexy and feminine. But the waist cincer will draw in your waist and make you more shapely.

Do those 2 things to start. If you REALLY want to work on shape. Use a CORSET to start drawing it as tight as possible, until you can finally cinch it to get a real hourglass shape. But this is for the more serious minded sissy. You may grow into it, we hope.

I want to tell you now, that if you do not know how to put on makeup you will look very obvious in public. If you're really bad at it, you may even look carnival-ish. It is important to study and practice practice practice. A good way to do that is to get together with another sissy and have a day of fun. How do you manage to find someone like this? Of course, the very best way is through Adult Friend Finder (AFF).

Be diligent about setting aside entire days for your dressing up. Believe me, makeup takes a while to put on, much less to learn secrets of application. In order to get your mind devoted to this, we recommend the Sissy Affirmations, and the Sissy Makeup Training mind training at Sissyme.com

There is so much information on the internet, it's just a matter of sifting through it all. We like to find video turorials, learning best by watching, although plenty of sites have step-by-step instructions with images. You can also get all your makeup online too. Don't worry. Everyone starts their sissy journey somewhere. Below is one of the examples of a video how-to

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How to Natural Beauty

First of all do a Google Search for Toenail Art Images. You can also look at nailartists.deviantart.com

After you study them, and look for one that appeals to you, learn how to do your own creative toenail art.

When you're done, and you are happy with your result, why not show them off? Do so here, where you can upload your toenail photo.

Need to train your sissy mind for Makeup Training? Then by all means, do it!

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Gotta admit, a foot fetish easily lends itself to another fetish in shoes! A first pair of girlie shoes depends usually on what kind of sissy you see yourself as *(or are being trained as). There is something about slipping into a pair of shoes that is like putting an exclamation point on a sentence, don't you agree? Of course, choosing the right shoe is important. If you have large calfs like men sometimes do, you'd probably be more interested in women's boots that cover the calf. On the other hand, some of us are lucky enough to have very sexy legs that should be shown off and highlighted with shoes that bring attention to the legs and feet.

A schoolgirl sissy will naturally gravitate toward Mary Janes, right? Can't you visualize yourself wearing a pair with a skimply plaid skirt, and frilly socks?

A slutty sissy would probably go for the spikey heels, really high ones. Maybe if being trained as a slut, would like to be PADLOCKED into their high heels. If this is you, then you should definitely check out Fetish Shoes from the pulldown menu under the "All Categories" block.

Whatever kind of sissy you are, there is a shoe for you! And don't deprive yourself. Always have lots of things to choose from. That's the most rewarding thing: dressing up.

Designershoes.com is our favorite. Got shoes? No?

You might also want to get some "brain training" if you're still not really comfortable in your mind about being a sissy. There's recordings here too about many other aspects of sissy training. Good girl.

Sissyboy - Real Sissies Wear Panties website has been around for coming up on 7 years. Our first article Just Can't Help It was submitted on February 22, 2005. Thank you for being one of our readers!

  So many sissy stories start with the wife or girlfriend or significant someone catching the sissy in the act. This one is not different.  It was New Year's Eve. Mitch had enough partying at the office, and said his goodbyes early. He never liked office parties, the women gravitated to certain guys but never to him. He didn't mind that too much. So he told himself. He did have one person who befriended him, but he suspected it was out of pity. She had heard others talk behind his back and often refer to him as Mitch the Bitch. Shilo would bring him coffee when she sensed Mitch was having a bad day. He loved smelling her Poison perfume, and admired the way she dressed, walked, and basically stayed different from the office gals. She was not intimidated, and dared to be different. Over the years, they became confidantes, and she often dragged Mitch along to her salon appointments. She would catch an odd look of longing in his eyes as he watched the manicurist shellac her nails and toenails in the wild colors she chose. Shilo was aware there was something different about Mitch, and that's probably why they clicked so well. He learned he could trust her and she would not betray him. From time to time, they would even sleep over at each others apartment, after visiting too late into the wee hours. That's why he eventually gave her his apartment key. This night that would be a grave mistake in judgement. Or would it?

I finally went to the gym, worried that my svelte figure was going to he'll from lying around week after week. Been sooo tired for sooo long. I just said f*** it, and packed my gym bag and drove to the gym. It felt really good to be on the treadmill again. I don't go to lift weights or any of that macho shit. I go to be slim and trim and a fit hardbody. Well, I finished my workout and thought it would be very nice to finish the day with a long relaxing sauna. I showered, pulled my hair back, and slipped on my flip- flops. There's nuttin worse than foot fungus from public showers. I noticed I still had my toenail polish on-- oops. Oh well, I was the only one going into the sauna. That's what I thought. I ladled some water to make steam and some young muscular guy came in. He sat at the other end of the bench I was on. It was embarrassingly silent and then he said, "is that nail polish?" I laughed and got nervous and right away started fumbling for a story. I was going to say my girlfriend was trying her new polish on me, but waited too long to make my excuse. He asked again, "Do you like wearing nail polish?" I noticed his original question had changed. I felt like I couldn't answer. He was now facing me kind of in a crouched position, both on the toppermost bench where it's hottest. The heat had speeded up my heartbeat, but so was the nervousness. Or was it excitement. Many times I imagined getting caught doing my girlie stuff, now here I was, alone with a jock in a dimly lit sauna. He laughed and said, "That's alright, let me see." I felt like I was being let off the hook, so I turned enough to show my toes. "no. Let me see them. Put you feet up here." I lifted my legs onto the bench, swiveling my body to face the young stud. "well, well, well, you shave your legs too! Relax I won't hurt you. Lean back." I leaned back against the hot cedar walls. That allowed me to be more comfortable. "Im into feet," he grinned, massaging my feet, "especially pretty feet. Like yours." he massaged my feet and it was sooo relaxing. Once in a while his massage would go part way up my smooth calves. Then he did something shocking! He put my feet in between his legs, and I could feel an enormous erection! He must've seen the shock on my face and he just laughed. Hey my massages are worth $60 an hour so now you have to start repaying me! He winked and took my feet and started rubbing them on the sides of his erection. Then I started doing it on my own, and as I got better at it, I even used my toes to tug his shorts down, then the real fun began. For him mostly. No I take that back, I think I was getting off on seeing my girlie toes pleasuring this fine stud. We tried to be sneaky cause there were a few people in the gym area, and when he finally came, it shot on my smooth silky legs and on my feet and pretty toes. "Let's see how much your stretching paid off," he smiled. He pushed my head all the way to my feet and made me lick his cum off my feet. He made me go back to the shower following behind him, where the cum on my face and legs and painted toenails brought looks of disgust, or surprise, or curiosity from the few guys getting dressed or undressed. I watched my "friend" lean over and say something to one of the guys by a locker. They were both staring my direction. My stud came over to me, "you're invited to work out with the 3 of us tomorrow." I would be there. Against my better judgement I knew I would.